As I drove into the underground carpark and stretched my hand out to insert the cashcard into the reader, G asked:
"Do you miss Singapore? Apart from your family, is there anythingelse that you really miss?"
All I could mutter was - Food.
Even then, it came after a strange pause. I have to admit, I never really gave it much thought. I've been away from home since 16 going on 17. The annual trip home was always felt like a holiday away from a holiday.
Even the trip home after my graduation felt more like an extended holiday - I knew I wasn't going to stay for long. I had plans to leave and head back to Melbourne. I had plans to fulfil my desire to work somewhere else - the perfect plan to escape, to satisfy my desire for independence - sort of.
But I miss my friends - friends from my primary school days, high school, friends from my church-going days, friends from Uni.. the friends that matter most to me. The same friends that require little maintenance but when we meet, it feels like we've only been apart for a few days. We chat and fill each other in.. the very friends who stand by you, knowing that you're about to make the worst mistake of your life but know that being the stubborn person that you are, will hold your hand and give you the support that you need.
That's one of the main things I miss when I'm away from Singapore.